For a happy family life, not only your relationship with your husband and trust are important, but also the relationship that develops with him and your parents. Often, many girls have a bad relationship with their mother-in-law. On both sides there are a number of claims and reproaches that the young husband has to listen to. His patience is unlikely to last long, so one day he may explode. So that there are no scandals and quarrels in your family, it is better to establish relations with your mother-in-law.
It is best to start this difficult job from the first acquaintance. Ask the groom in advance about the addictions of his mother, prepare some cute souvenir for her. At the first meeting, you should dress modestly, while using the minimum amount of makeup. After you get to know her better, you should call her periodically and ask about her health. All mothers-in-law are very fond of being paid attention to.
Another tip: try to be independent. You should listen with interest to her opinion and advice, but you should act in your own way. In the end, you are responsible for your life and destiny. If you need help (especially material), you should remember your parents last, otherwise they will consider you “green” and unintelligent, and will take care of you in every possible way. Some people cannot get rid of such guardianship even at the age of 40.
The main secret to success in building a good relationship with your mother-in-law is distance. The less often you see each other, the less time you will have for conflicts. Infrequent meetings on weekends will be the key to normal communication and sincere smiles. If the mother-in-law comes to visit you, she is unlikely to become the mistress of your house – this is the main reason for the quarrels.